Tuesday, November 30, 2010

RED BOTTOMS!!! CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTINS!!!




FOR THOSE THAT ARE NOT HIP TO IT YET THESE ARE RED BOTTOMS OR BETTER KNOW AS CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTINS!!! CHECK THEM OUT YOU CAN FIND THEM AT SOUTH COAST PLAZA IN COSTA MESA!!! ALSO FOR THE LADYS BUT AS YOU CAN SEE IM A MALE SO IM GONE POST WHAT I LIKE.... HERE HOW THEY LOOK ON FEET

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DECEMBER PICK UPS/ RELEASE DATES

AIR JORDAN DOERNBECHER 3
12/4/2010

AIR JORDAN 13 ALTITUDE
12/11/2010
AIR JORDAN 13 RETRO
12/18/2010


AIR JORDAN 11 COOL GREY
12/23/2010


KOBE 6 DEL SOL
12/26/2010

ALL THESE ARE STAMPED MUST COPP POINT BLANK PERIOD DONT SLEEP GET AT ME!!!

Air Jordan 13 “Altitude” – 2005 vs 2010 Comparison

The majority of you have been anticipating the multiple, major Jordan Brand releases of this holiday season. We knew about the “Flint” Air Jordan 13s, the Air Jordan 13 White/Black-True Red and the “Cool Grey” Air Jordan 11s for some time now; however, just recently, we learned of the “Altitude” Air Jordan 13 re-release. While we await this special release, check out this highly-detailed comparison between the 2005 and 2010 versions of the “Altitude” Air Jordan 13.
As we have mentioned in previous post, the newest versions opts for a black ballistic mesh covering (seen on the recently released “Flint” Air Jordan 13s) on the side panels instead of the dimpled leather texture seen on the 2005 version. Some of you were disgusted with the change, while others have welcomed it. Another change we have noticed from this detailed comparison is the shades of Altitude Green. The 2010 version seems to feature a brighter shade of green, specifically seen on the Jumpman logo (tongue) and on various sections of the outsole. What are your thoughts on this comparison? Are you pleased with the new, 2010 version or do you prefer the 2005 released “Altitude” Air Jordan 13? View the comparison in its entirety below.





Tuesday, November 23, 2010

THAT DAY!!!!



My twins its almost they day. 1 year... i only wish i could express how i truly feel. being a father isnt as easy as it looks. anyone can make a baby but not everyone can take care of one. all im gone say is this i love you guys with all my heart. happy 1st B day my loves daddy loves you and from the bottom of his heart......









IM SORRY!!!!

Monday, November 22, 2010

LIVING A LIE!!!LOOK LISTEN AND LEARN

Bow Wow Returns After Negative Times | Bow Wow | Rap Basement

some people think people are people they really not or dont want to be. and live a lie within themselves

the bentley of the year!!!

if you seen this b4 you would know that the other set of rims on the other side are all blk with the red lip. this is what a bentley could look like. this is 100 k + whip with 100 k put into it... just wanted you to see what a great whip looks like. and yes blk and white is the greatest color you can put on a whip period!!!look listen and learn!!!

air jordan 13 flint


just incase you forgot air jordan 13 flint black friday enough said

air jordan bin 7 release this friday black friday


air jordan bin 7 you already know what it is just giving those a heads up if you need a pair holla at me fast and dont be cheap about it.... dont sleep like yall did on the 2,9,13 dont sleep great pic up!!! and oh yeah also flint 13 same day. so everyone enjoy thankgiving and after get your sneakerhead on!!!

Scene from "The Who Is Shad Moss" Project Movie



this is a crazy life you hear it first from a man thats telling the truth. girls that think you gone be a wify to this type a niggas you got another thing coming. you can get some quick nigga maybe a good time for a night. but you get to hear it first from a nigga with money and power. its a billion pretty faces what makes you different? you ask your self that question. so girls quit degrading yourself and do you? this real shit. i look forward to the whole thing "who is shad moss" some people dont understand the lifestyle but want to. that shit aint for everyone and some that get it, it aint ment for they ass either thats why they loose it. everyone lesson learn do you dont worry about the next thrill shit enjoy the quick video

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Happiness is a Choice!!!

happiness is a choice it is a decision one must make to be at peace with ones self. a selfish person only has to deal with the happiness of one person themselves. but a person who loves many more then themselves have to choose between what makes them self happy or what makes there love ones or lover happy. i love many that's my issue but it seem like only yesterday(more like 2 years ago)i had only to deal my happiness only. now i have to worry about more then just myself, but a family it takes a strong man to deal with the situation and the things Ive dealt with and still deal with. life isn't easy its a journey. a working progress. everyone falls but its not about the fall its about what you do after the fall. some continue to do the same some grow and change. so what I'm trying to say is control your happiness. you will fall from time to time but remember you keep your faith in God and you will always have the strength to get up and make a better day. The lord never put to much on your shoulder then what you can handle. so continue to create your happiness path and control your destiny I'm trying to do the same.and always remember happiness is a choice.

IM BACK!!!

Sorry people been gone for a lil taking care of business trying to get on these new projects plus having my me time you know how that is. but basically been being a dad 1. searching for my love life 2. getting school and my business goals down 3. and a trying to better my self in the word 4. Things are not easy but with faith they will always get better. i have a view projects in the making that im lookin forward to pray for me. and also i should be traveling soon to vegas and new york which i will post pics of and videos of the places i go and the places i shop and the things i buy.until then ill be in and out. oh yeah also go get that kanye west CD real good music the cd is intitled "my beautiful twisted dark fantasy" and also get my boi tyga mixtape by my homie dj drama. "well done" also fire and dont miss out on the jordan 13 flints coming soon ill post a pic of those real soon. dont sleep.GONE MR. UNOTME

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

TODAY IS MY SON TARGET COMMERCIAL

Target Commercial
I love my kids dearly all 3 of them my son has his commercial today just wanted everyones blessing and Gods blessing and Goodluck.Thanks everyone

Saturday, November 6, 2010

kanye west Tells it like it is!!!


this is why i do what i do. speak the real cant be madd at a man that does that.

Bless everyone!!!

You may be going through a tough time right now but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that only He can. Keep the faith.

God, I ask You to bless my friends, relatives and myspace friends reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of Your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them Your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace. Bless their homes, families, finances, their goings and their comings In Jesus' precious name.

Amen

pain is pain love is love 6.28


I felt both from Brittany don't everyone go through ups and downs everyone has they opinion about how are relationship is and was. She is a great person did she make mistakes to me in ate relationship yes don't we all make mistakes. I'm not... perfect I've done things in my life I'm not proud of but I learn from them and I hope she do the same. I love and will always have love for her in my heart I do not hate her for everyone that thinks that. Sometime in life u open books together but you don't really B on the same page for whatever reason that may be. But at the end of the day god bless her and I will always have a special place for her and her daughter in my heart! Confession and stuff I had to clear up the air. LOVE LIVE LIFE 6.28

Friday, November 5, 2010

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Nike Air Force 1 Bespoke ‘Illness’ by Sean Hiatt


you don’t often hear from the creator of a Nike Air Force 1 Bespoke, but that is just what happened with the “Illness” created by Sean Hiatt. While Sean used black croc skin to cover the majority of the upper, he opted for wool for the side panels and interior toe box. With a SB on an Air Force as his inspiration, Sean left the Nike Swoosh a bright white, but added a cobalt blue lip around it to make the contrast less drastic. The sole stays gum all the way through, with throwback cobalt blue pivot points. Other details include white laces, and a special “Seany 2010″ lace tag. But enough of my descriptions, let Sean tell you himself in the video above



Quitness They say wow: how can they diss when your not in someone shoes


wow this is funny. disrespect like wow. but hey its funny at the end of the day. no one is in his shoes the league and owners have did so much to players that we dont know about that you can never speak on a player unless you know them personally. people forgot in 98 when jordan wanted the owners of the bulls to keep his team and keep phil what they did. people forgot how the league treated iverson when he was a loyal player. people keep forgetting how shaq done played for every damn team in the league period when he supposed to be the greatest or how the celtics kg and ray allen went to the same team to get a ring. all the people that down grade lebron do yall remember after the lakers lost to the pistons what did kobe say? i want to be traded. these are basketball players not God they need to be loyal to themself not you people. your a fan be a fan not a obsessed crazy person. at the end of the day your not in they shoes so dont judge anyone unless you are. lebron will still go down as one of the greatest ever rather you like it or not.

no on

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quotes:Life Lessons

Today i was up early got awaken out of my sleep with news i really wasnt looking forward to. But in life things are not always what there cracked out to be. but i was checking my twitter and my boi @VicSlim1 was posting some real life quotes that Got to me so i thought i would share them with you.

"The successful person places more attention on doing the right thing rather than doing things right." ~ Peter Drucker

in life you always have to do the right thing always people now adays seem like they dont know or just dont care about whats right and wrong anymore. you have to have morals rules and regulation or are world would be worst then it is today.

"Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it." ~ William Penn

these both piggy back off each other. right is right im a religious person so i know right from wrong. some people dont for example you have friends that will all tell you to do something even tho everyone says it dont mean its right. These things happen alot in relationships all the time for example your the only person with a mate and all your friends are single and your friends want you to go out all the time negating the fact that you have a mate at home that doesnt want you to go just because all your friends want you to go and its 4 or 3 of them and one of your mate against it dont make it right to go. whats right is right and whats wrong is wrong. someone thats not in your shoes dont live your life shouldnt influence you in anyway. look at the bigger picture.but i have a quote my self that i live by: people feel free to pass it on:

"Watch your thought,they become words.watch your words;they become action.watch your action;they become habits.watch your habits:they become character.watch your character;it becomes your destiny"julian brown

Words to live by!!!

Air Jordan III Retro Doernbecher

Air Jordan 3 DB Charity 
December release 
12/11/2010

here's the second air jordan iii retro colorway of 2010. whith the return of the white/cement colorway in 2011, it nice to see one more dropping before then, and a new colorway to boot.this one is this years jordan doernbecher release and is a part of the 2010 freestyle vii series.it will be available in december for the first time as all previous doernecher release have been in novermber, and is a nike exclusive.Retail is $160. 

Thursday, November 4, 2010

BEN baller crusin


CRUSIN' WITH BEN BALLER from DERICK G on Vimeo.

check the homie out in the 4 door porsche panamera. thats my right had man giving him his love on my site killing niggas in the game at 22 years of age!!!

God Bless Everyone

You never know when God is going to bless you!! Good things happen when you least expect them to.

Dear Lord, I thank You for this day. I thank You for my being able to see and to hear this morning. I'm blessed because You are a forgiving God and an understanding God. You have done so much for me and You keep on blessing me. Forgive me this day for everything I have done, said or thought that was not pleasing to you. I ask now for Your forgiveness. Please keep me safe from all danger and harm. Help me to start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude. Let me make the best of each and every day to clear my mind so that I can hear from You. Please broaden my mind that I can accept All things. Let me not whine and whimper over things I have no control over.And It's the best response when I'm pushed beyond my limits. I know that when I can't pray, You listen to my heart. Continue to use me to do Your will. Continue to bless me that I may be a blessing to others. Keep me strong that I may help the weak... Keep me uplifted that I may have words of encouragement for others. I pray for those that are lost and can't find their way. I pray for those that are misjudged and misunderstood. I pray for those who don't know You intimately. I pray for those that will delete this without sharing it with others. I pray for those that don't believe. But I thank you that I believe. I believe that God changes people and God changes things. I pray for all my sisters and brothers. For each and every family member in their households. I pray for peace, love and joy in their homes that they are out of debt and all their needs are met. I pray that every eye That reads this knows there is no problem, circumstance, or situation greater than God. Every battle is in Your hands for You to fight.. I pray that these words be received into the hearts of every eye that sees It

ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD CANT BUY YOU HAPPINESS

Money dont buy happiness. I got money true enough but is money everything. i can wake up tomorrow and go where i want and buy what i want, but what is it to have everything and no one to share it with.Money dont buy love. i wish i could give up my money to never been cheated on or lied to by a women. i wish i could trade the money for a women who would love me and only me and be my wife. alot of people have life twisted you cant die with your money and your money will not love you back it wont hold your hand it wont give you a kiss it wont make love to you. it wont do shit but bring fake and temporary happiness. yeah it will get you hoes yeah it will make you smile for a moment but in the end is that it. remember what they say its hard for a rich man to go to heaven. The love of money is the root of all evil. so i would give this up in a heart beat for the one i love!!!lesson learn LOVE LIVE LIFE!!!LOVE AND FAMILY 1ST

MR. UNOTME (MONEY MAYWEATHER)BLOG



trying to copy pretty boy floyd....bored...Gods blessings

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MR. UNOTME LIL JORDAN COLLECTION



just a lil somethin somethin i did a while ago let cats know whats up!!! 800+ kicks and i dont know when im gone stop

air force collection



my first videos i kinda sucked at it dont pay attention to the sound. just look at the kicks that was almost 2 and half years ago. july 29,2008

Worst and Best thing that ever happen to me

one of the worst and best things that ever happen to me malauni brown. For everyone who wondering and always wanted to ask no she is not my biological daughter she may look like me but she is not mine. She is Brittany Evans daughter which is my Ex. Malauni has been apart of my life sense she was about 5 to 6 months she is 2 now. No words can explain the feeling i feel for her i feel like that's my daughter i treat her like my daughter she has taught me how to love. she taught me more what love is actually. i was 23 years old no responsibility no nothing in the world to worry about. i always said i would never even date a women with a child but loving this girl made me think different. she slept with me every night woke up with me everyday its hard to let go of a person because of what the parents go through let alone a child. she didn't ask to be apart of my life God did that for me and her and it sucks we both have to suffer because of parents doing. i don't know how i would feel if this lil girl wouldn't have came into my life i have twins of my own now with a person who will always remain nameless, but i love my kids my situation maybe hard having twins and not being with the baby mom but hey that's life.i just hate that i was brought into a lil girl life and now its like i have to let go because of issue between me and the mother. I'm 24 for Christ sake and she 21 why cant be adults and clear the air? to be real with you ill keep it 300 i never wanted separation from her in the first place i loved her and malauni dearly and would have died for the both of them, but the devil works hard when love is that strong for one or the other he broke it apart for various reason that i will bring up sooner or later. but like i said it just sucks i have to not be in a child's life because of the situation and baby dad drama. i love her dearly as far as she and everyone else is concern fuck that,she is my daughter. I'm her daddy ju ju and i love her. its the best thing that ever happen to me because she has taught me so much and the worst because she not in my life anymore and i think about her all day everyday and i have no control because at the end of the day she is not mine. But at times i swear to God i wish she was!!!

EYES


A everyone that read this try this!!!Go up to someone that ur afraid to tell them somethin and close ur eye and ask whatever u was feeling towards that person or whatever ur afraid to ask i promise u it will beasy.But the question is why is it so easy?Think about it when ur stressed out or afraid u close ur eyes & go 2 sleep,when ur watching a scary movie & a scary part is about 2 come up u close ur eyes,when ur on a rollercoaster & a scary part is about to come up u close ur eyes. So why do people do that,because u cant fear what u cant C.fear is by sight,sight of failer,sight of losing , sight of how ur goin 2 b viewed,sight of all terrible things that can happen.but truely whats the worst can happen? nothing if ur eyes r closed cause u cant C the outcome. My point is fear is no faith. God said "fear not".fear is a man made trait.get rid of it.u can close ur eyes N the beginning but sooner or later ur going 2 have 2 face ur fears head on, & the time is now build ur faith up. With the trust and faith in God u can accomplish anything.They say a coward dies a 1000 deaths a valiant never faces death but onces.what that
means if ur afraid,u die everyday because ur scared to do this,your scared to do that,so ur not living,but a valiant faces everthing ia lives there life. So face ur problems and dont be afraid. God is with u. Amen

God Never Threatens

God never threatens
(God never threatens; the devil never warns.)(threats and warnings)in loving relationships, people warn one another of the inevitable consequences of foolish behavior. In unhealthy relationships, people threaten one another with punishment if they fail to live up to unreasonable damands. As we interact with others,its good 2 consider the nature of our counsel and commans. Do we use ultimatums to preserve our own wellbeing? Or do we lovingly warn others to keep them from harm? Warnings are an expression of love; threats are an expression of control.

Question:How can we take comfort from the love of god if we dont feel
loved?

This Some Real SHit Ben Balller was talkin about listen and pay attention

Do we love???

Do we love the way we say or think we do?In order for someone to truely love someone else, you have to try to understand how the person views the world through there eyes.the majority of people just communicate on the service.one person just talking the others just wating to get there point across,most people yeah they hear what ur saying,but very few listen.

facing fears

everyone that read this do as i ask!!!!everyone find someone that ur afraid to tell them something or afraid to ask them something. so find that person right now and close your eyes count to 5 then keep ur eyes closed still take a deep breath and count to 5 again and as soon as ur finished say whatever u was feeling towards that person or whatever ur afraid to ask i promise u it will be easy. But the question is why is it so easy? Think about it when ur stressed out or afraid u close ur eyes and go to sleep, when ur watching a scary movie and a scary part is about to come up u close ur eyes,when ur on a rollercoaster and a scary part is about to come up u close ur eyes. So why do people do that ,because u cant fear what u cant see. fear is by sight, sight of failer, sight of losing , sight of how ur goin to be viewed, sight of all terrible things that can happen. but truely whats the worst can happen? nothing if ur eyes are closed cause u cant see the outcome. My point is fear is no faith. God said "fear not". fear is a man made trait. get rid of it. u can close ur eyes in the beginning but sooner or later ur going to have to face ur fears head on, and the time is now build ur faith up. With the trust and faith in God u can accomplish anything. They say a coward dies a 1000 deaths a valiant never faces death but onces. what that means if ur afraid, u die everyday because ur scared to do this, your scared to do that, so ur not living, but a valiant faces everthing a lives there life. so face ur problems and dont be afraid. Amen

detaching yourself!!!

Buddhists say. "Dont cling to things, because everything is impermanent."But detachment doesnt mean u dont let the experience penetrate u. On the contrary, u let it penetrate u fully. Thats how u are able 2 leave it."take any emotion-luv 4 a women,or grief 4 a loved 1, or death. If u hold back on the emotions-if u dont allow urself 2 go all the way through them-u can never get 2 being detached, ur 2 busy being afraid.ur afraid of the pain, ur afraid of the grief.ur afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.(Second is fear of aging) Fear of growing old and aging. Aging is not just decay. Its growth. It's more than the negative that ur going to die, its also the positive that u understand ur going to die, and that u live a better life because of it.

how are we ever prepared to die

how can u ever be prepared to die!!!
How can u ever be prepared to die? That is the question. They say do what the buddhist do. Every day, have a lil bird on ur shoulder that asks, is today the day?am i ready?am i doing all i need to do?am i being the person i want to be?THose are the questions u should ask urself. So u can live right every single day of ur life!!!So u live with no regrets!!! The truth is "once u learn how 2 die, u learn how live!!!" "Most of us all walk around as if were sleepwalking. We really dont experience the world fully, because were halfasleep, doing things we automatically think we have 2 do."but when ur facing death changes all that!!! U strip away all that stuff, and u focus essentials. When u realize u are going to die or could have died. U c everything much differently. Learn how 2 die, and u will learn how to live!!!! We are 2 involved in materialistic things, and they dont satisfy us. The loving relationships we have, the universe around us, we take these things for granted. Well just like everyone else i was one of those people until saturday night till i was face to face with death with a gun pointed at my stomach. The first thing running in my mind is this real is this really happening, it cant be happening, some body jump out and say ha ha ha got u. this is all a game. But know one did that , that shit was real. my life is real ur life is real everyone life is real. and we all need to focus on doing things the right way b4 its too late dont let what happen to me have to happen to u to make u realize that ur life is so important and u dont have time to waste. I just thank God im here right now i could be dead right now. Its crazy on the day that we was celebrating black mike, and propect is the same day i almost got did the same way. over what some materialistic shit oh wow. But that made me realize that God has something special for me he has big plans and im gone follow him and take care of them plans and everyone else i hope u do the same!!!  GOD BLESS EVERYONE!!! AND REMEMBER JESUS LOVES US!!!AMEN

confessions!2008


To everyone that reads this feel where im coming from. We as males have this problem called are EGOs and PRIDE.We let that take over who we really are as people and as a man.It took me a long time to realize that.It took many mistakes and m...any hearts ive broken,and many lonely nights, and loves lost just understand. ive truely figured out what was wrong and it was infront of me my hole life.all the stress ive went through all the stress ive put them through, all the yelling the crying, all the its your fault not mines shit. Thinking i could do no wrong. But if i only stoped and looked at a mirror for a second, if we all just look in the mirror for a second.We all would realize that ,the person infront of u is u..Dont look no where else for ur problems to blame the next. Dont point the finger just repent and change for the better. The lord helps those that help there self. ive helped my self and im trying help everyone that reads this blog this is my confession to all the women ive ever loved for all the women that have loved me back you all played a big part in my life and i wish that i could take back each and every time ive ever hurt anyone of u."IM SORRY"!!!!As God is my witness "IM SORRY" i just wish each one of u could be with the person i am now.So much smarter so much my caring more loving more understanding. Today is was thinking to myself i said "am i soft now or am i weak" what is wrong with me . im really not my self anymore the stuff i used to get madd at i dont get madd at anymore the stuff i onced cared so much about dont really mean nothing to me anymore damn i guess this is what they mean when they say ur finally growing up.And i give all the glory to God and the onces that loved me so much and u know who u are.To all the guys in the world treat ur women with respect ,hold them, love them, kiss them , like u never wont to let them go tell them there beautyful . dont tell them u bomb say ur beautyful. be with ur women every single day like it's your last. because one day it will be and u gone be wishing u could have change things and wishing u could take this back or that back and u cant. u cant turn back the hands of time so make them right while u can i use to have regrets i dont anymore im just thankful to have had the women in my life when i had them because they all played a beautyful part in making me who i am today and i thank them so much and i just want to say "I LOVE ALL OF U WITH ALL MY HEART" And thank u for the love that u gave me. And for those who have hatred in ur heart or u dont forgive get it out of u.Because if u dont forgive then God wont forgive u.REMEMBER that u have to forgive to be forgiven. Well i thank God for making me able to to type this for everyone to see God bless. Amen Thank

LETTING GO


Heres a saying "Don't let go too soon, but don't hang on too long." sometimes we have to understand how to do that. If u where ask to say ur final words what would u say? I would say "Be compassionate," and take responsibility for each othe...r. If we only learned those lessons, this world would be so much better a place." love each other or die in pain.We are all looking for a certain peace with the idea of dying. If we know, in the end, that we can ultimately have that peace with dying, then we can finally do the really hard thing. Make peace with living. but As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created in still there. All the memories are still there. You live on-in the hearts of everyone u have touched and nurtured while u we're here.Death ends a life, not a relationship.There is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties, what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like. In business, people negotiate to win. They negotiate to get what they want. Love is different. Love is when u are as concerned about someone else's situation as u are about your own.